The Bruja Professor

Which Witch Are You? : Finding Your Magical Self Through Storytelling & Pop Culture Keynote Transcript

Last summer, I had the honor of being one of the keynote speakers for Romancing the Gothic Conference 2023 – The Supernatural and Witchcraft in belief, practice and depiction. Below is the full transcript of the talk, including slides. Video recording coming soon…

Thank you for joining us today, and thank you, Sam [Hirst], for organizing this fantastic conference. This lecture, “Which Witch Are You? : Finding Your Magical Self Through Storytelling and Pop Culture,” will explore how witches in popular culture influence real-world practicing witches like myself, both inviting us to celebrate the counter-culture joy of the craft and to engage with the problematics of making an othered archetype more mainstream. So we’ll be looking at the delights, the horrors, and the delightful horrors of all things witchy in popular culture. 

It would be easy to say that witches are having a moment. You would just have to point to the influx of witchy romance novels and magical paranormal shows or look at the broader conversation surrounding “witch-hunts” (heavy on the air quotes) in our current political landscape. 

But I’m going to let you in on a little not-so-secret secret: Witches might be having a moment, true, but we’ve always been here. And we’ve had other moments. In fact, we owe much of pop culture’s current resurgence in all things witchy to streaming. Thanks to online media, a whole new generation has been exposed to iconic shows like Charmed and Bewitched and films like Practical Magic and The Craft. Now, whimsigoth, a style made iconic by shows like Buffy the Vampire Slayer, among others, is taking over TikTok and Instagram. We have WitchTok, Witches of Instagram, and more mainstream publications, like Cosmopolitan magazine, writing about astrology, witchcraft, and natural spirituality. 

So the images I have on this slide are, starting in the upper left-hand corner: a photo of The Hoodwitch, a big name for Witches of Instagram. Next to it is a poster for the iconic show Charmed and Sephora’s controversial witch kit that got pulled from the market for a variety of issues, including cultural appropriation.  In the second row, there is an image of Donald Trump calling attacks against him “witch hunts,” which completely turns the phrase inside-out. Then we have an article about whimsigoth fashion on social media, and a selection of witchy romance novels.

And yet, as mainstream as witchy business has become, there are those of us who have always been immersed in natural spirituality and, quite frankly, often eschew the more commodified representations of our practices. There are those of us, in other words, that always felt a little witchy. To quote a meme that’s often passed around witchy social media, “Some of you did not spend your childhoods making potions out of random leaves, berries, and twigs tossed into a tub of water and stirred with a stick you found…and it shows.” 

Seriously though? Half the joy of witchy pop culture is the memes.

Anyway, some of us, like myself, grew up in what I call “hippy woo-woo homes,” where mysticism and everyday magic were normalized. We have roots in conjure folk practices and healing folk practices as well as influences in the modern new age movement. Others are leaving behind mainstream religion and exploring their spirituality in other ways. So we have witchy folk—some of whom gladly take on the term witch, others who have that term applied to them to mark their difference—who have embraced the path as something that has been passed down to us through the generations or found the path through their own search for connection and meaning. Both paths are valid.

All this by way of saying that it’s important to remember here, when we talk about pop culture witches, that there are, in fact, real-world witches. These are lived experiences. Some choose the name witch voluntarily. Others, including conjure folk practitioners and healers, have had the term applied to them. Still others take back the term, choosing to transform the negative connotations into a celebration of hidden or suppressed histories (I am one of these witches).

As a mestiza, a woman of mixed Indigenous, European, and Latine heritage, it’s impossible for the history of colonization in my blood not to shape my spiritual practice. Embracing the term bruja, or witch, is my way of acknowledging how my family history of curanderismo, or folk healing practice, was seen as a transgressive practice, an evil art by the Spanish church at various times throughout history. So I offer up two definitions of witch, though they are by no means the only definitions, just the ones I feel are most suited to this presentation.

The first is from Kristen J. Sollee’s Witches, Sluts, Feminists, which says, "The Witch is at once female divinity, female ferocity, and female transgression." For the purposes of this lecture, I use the term “female” in a gender-inclusive way, as witchy business is often considered anti-patriarchal, queer, and more centered on traditionally feminine attributes, attributes which, regardless of our gender, we can all embody. 

The second definition is from my own blog, Enchantment Learning & Living, and specifically defines the term bruja, or witch, as “an archetype that reclaims the once negative term witch and finds power in her otherness. Brujeria is about taking our power back and honoring our divine right to joy, pleasure, hope, and happiness.” I include this definition here to emphasize the importance of acknowledging that witches of color are often working through layers of reconnecting to our heritage, working through histories of colonization, and reclaiming our right to joy. It’s a narrative that reads a little differently than the white witchcraft that’s most often centered in popular culture.

And while it would be easy to turn this lecture into a celebration of witchcraft, the community isn’t without its dark side. No community is.

I would love to say that all witches are good. But we do, indeed, have our bad witches, the gingerbread-house-living, children-eating, poison-apple-making dark magic practitioners. Only in real life, we call them spiritual gatekeepers (or those who keep others out of the community by saying they’re not pure of blood or enlightened enough), spiritual bypasses (or those who perform feel-good rituals while bypassing serious mental health issues), and, of course, old-fashioned white supremacists…and basically the typical baddies you find in most communities

These issues—the difference between good witches and bad witches—remind me of the question Glenda the Good Witch poses to Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz: “Are you a good witch or a bad witch?”

This is a question worth asking of ourselves. The answer is not as simple as stating you are a Glittery Glenda or a green-skinned Wicked Witch of the West. The heart of the question for real witches is in knowing if you are a transgressive free spirit committed to honoring the wild spirit in others…or if you are a witch who, intentionally or unintentionally, upholds white supremacy, spiritual gatekeeping, spiritual bypassing, cultural appropriation…I could go on, but you get the idea.

Good witches honor their heritage, cultural traditions, and sometimes, the need to cultivate new ones when we are disconnected from our pasts for various reasons stemming from generational trauma to lost histories due to cultural assimilation. Good witches also respect the heritages of others without inappropriately taking from them. Bad witches indulge in cultural appropriation and reinforce the very social norms that they are trying to escape. 

I could complicate this analogy further. I mean, how "good" is Glenda if she's celebrating the fact that Dorothy dropped a house on another witch? If we've learned anything from Wicked, it's that the villain's story is never clean-cut, a theme reinforced by the story arc of Regina, the Evil Queen in Once Upon a Time's reimagining of Snow White. As they often say in that series, evil isn't born, it's made. 

See? Explorations of witchcraft in popular culture are never simple. But they do give us jumping-off points for exploring our own light and dark sides. Our magical sides, too. In fact, The Wizard of Oz lays the groundwork for the idea that witches could, in fact, be cool, pretty, and benevolent, thanks to Glenda the Good Witch, giving us permission, in turn, to be both powerful AND good, even if we don't want to wear a glittery bubble-gum pink ballgown (confession: I do).

We also have the Dorothys, or basic witches like myself, who are everyday folk looking for a little more magic in our lives. For the purposes of this lecture, I want to focus on these basic pop culture witches as figures that can help us heal. They show us that you don’t have to have “pure blood” to be a witch or know what you’re doing. Like Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz, you just have to take that first step on the yellow brick road, and, with luck, community, and maybe a little song and dance, you’ll discover that you’ve had the power in you all along.

This is an especially important concept for those of us with complicated relationships to our heritage. As we search for our sense of self and empowerment, pop culture witches serve as a reminder that we are magic and can conjure our own path.

You could say I’ve found myself in stories. Now I’m going to give you some very personal examples of how pop culture witches can help us reclaim our sense of self as magical beings so we can see just how powerful seemingly “fun” or “frivolous” stories can be.

The first series I want to discuss is Juliet Blackwell’s Witchcraft Mysteries, featuring the natural witch Lily Ivory. She is currently a vintage clothing shop owner in San Francisco, using her magical abilities to solve paranormal crimes in her adopted city. She grew up in a small town in Texas and, because of her abilities, was chased out at an early age. As a result, she never finished her witchy education with her grandmother Graciela or the curandera her grandmother sent her to when they realized the town was no longer safe for the young witch. 

Although Blackwell didn’t intend for her protagonist to be Latina or Indigenous, it’s impossible not to read Lily Ivory as mestizaje-coded. She reads as having a mixed background with cultural lines that aren’t always easy to untangle, especially in her use of the Spanish language and certain conjure folk practices. Even when I teach the first book in this series in my Witchcraft and Pop Culture class, my students, who are largely Latine, Hispanic, Indigenous, and Mestizaje, also read her as Latina or mestiza. What’s more, they love it! They are always pleasantly surprised to see themselves represented in stories that artfully explore complicated mixed-raced legacies and conjure folk practices—and that are fun and joyful! It's a big departure from the many trauma porn narratives we’re used to seeing ourselves in.

As for me, I found this series when I was a baby witch, away from the Land of Enchantment for the first time, coming to terms with the fact that not everyone grew up in mystically inclined households and grappling with very real cultural differences in a big white city. Blackwell’s series first drew me in because of the glitter on the cover, but it kept me reading because it was perhaps the first time I’d read a mestizaje narrative that grappled with the difficulty of finding a way forward with a fractured heritage and limited cultural education. What’s more, as the series develops, we see Lily finding a wonderful found family, a home, and love—an absolutely magical story for anyone wanting to feel like they, too, can conjure those things.

My second example is a more recent one. Isabel Canas’s The Hacienda is a magnificent gothic romance set in turn-of-the-century Mexico and deftly explores the complexity of our violent colonial history where nothing is romanticized. This gothic romance centers on a mestizo priest who is also a brujo. It is unclear in the story if this man is a curandero, or healer, and a brujo in the eyes of the church only, that is, if his witchy identity is different from this folk healer practice. And that is the beauty of it. Those labels and identities become mixed, so much so that we often can't separate them. There are parts of his cultural history that are lost to him, parts that he must keep hidden, and parts that he intuitively knows. Not going to lie: I felt SEEN.

These stories tell us that we aren’t alone in trying to heal from a tangled past or find ourselves in the present. They remind us that despite the history of trauma in our blood, we can conjure a future full of healing and hope.

We learn to take what we can of our past or heritage—what is nourishing and life-giving—and let go of what is toxic or oppressive. There are things in our backgrounds, family pain, generational trauma, and ancestral hauntings—yes, I said ancestral hauntings, I’ve got to get a little woo-woo, or else what am I doing here? What it all boils down to is that we can’t always go back. Some things are lost to us. Some things are too risky to return to. This is an important reality for many of us and worth emphasizing in a cultural moment that focuses mostly on reclaiming the past and reclaiming our heritage as a form of empowerment. That’s not something many of us can safely do. This leaves us with a burning question:

Where do we go from here?

The answer is simple. We turn to pop culture witches to show us a different way of being. I’m making some sweeping generalizations here—and there’s a lot I’m leaving out—but I want to walk you through the journey of magical selfhood through some of the most iconic witchy archetypes in pop culture. 

For many of us, the journey into the wild woods of witchcraft can be terrifying. That’s where we get the archetype of the scary witches like Baba Yaga, La Huesera, or the Bone Woman, and the witch in the hut in the middle of the forest. But there’s a duality to these figures. Baba Yaga is both the malevolent child-eater and the benevolent savior. 

La Loba, sometimes known as La Huesera, is a benevolent life-giver, collecting the bones of endangered animals to give them new life. She is also a terrifying figure at home in the world of wounded or dying things. Although not technically considered a witch in folklore, La Huesera is definitely treated as such in my novella, Weep, Woman, Weep. Like the more helpful incarnation of Baba Yaga, La Loba or La Huesera in my book is who you go to when you need the kind of help only a witch who means business can give.

The images here are a still of Emma Caufield as the witch in Hansel and Gretel from the TV show Once Upon a Time, a 19th-century Russian illustration of Baba Yaga, and fan art of the Bone Woman by steeringfornorhart.

This terror of the unknown, the fear of leaving the safety of traditional communities, however stifling they are, is best exemplified in 2016 film The Witch, about the horrors of Puritan America. We are as afraid as Thomasin of the menacing figures hidden in the woods and yet, by the end of the film, are eager for her to align with Black Phillip. After all, living deliciously in the woods sounds a lot better than living with a repressed, hypocritical, borderline incestuous family. We want her to go be the witch of the wood!

These scary witches, in other words, represent duality—the darkness and the light of the craft, our hope and fear of the unknown.

And speaking of The Craft…we see these same themes playing out in iconic films. In The Craft (1996), we get the transgressive counter-culture gothiness of a group of teen girls reclaiming their power through the craft AND we get a cautionary tale, reminding us not to recreate oppressive structures once we’re the ones with power. Empowerment is terrifying—and it comes with a certain amount of responsibility, namely ensuring you aren't getting your empowerment at the expense of someone else’s autonomy.

The message is clear: Always magic responsibly. 

This terror of transgression and the unknown is all part of the process, the first step in moving beyond mainstream religion or even conventional norms—it's scary! Even if you are a basic witch like me. And for some of us, we’re always walking the fine line of being terrified of our own agency and autonomy and empowered by it. We’re also always negotiating being viewed as the child-eating demon or the benevolent fairy godmother.

It’s once we get past the terrors of this archetype, things get really interesting.

Thanks to the silver screen, we enter an era in which witches aren’t just terrifying. They’re sexy…and kind of fun! And while there are issues with inappropriately sexualizing othered bodies, the sexy witch, to my mind, is a bold transgressive figure, especially when that witch is Veronica Lake. In I Married a Witch (1942), she’s seductive, she’s fun, and she’s…harmless. 

I won’t bother going into the plot of this film since it is nonsensical and quickly unravels. Do we care? No! All we care about is Veronica Lake as a sexy witch running circles around the basic bitch politician love interest. She dazzles! She delights! She makes us feel playful and magical. More: She gives us permission to be empowered by our sexuality. 

Veronica Lake also ushers in an era of witches who aren’t terrifying creatures of the wild wood or green-skinned monsters. Witches, we learn, look just like ordinary people. Only very, very sexy ordinary people.

These are just some examples of the legacy of the sexy witch in popular culture, like Kim Novak in Bell, Book, and Candle (1958), the polyamorous coven in The Witches of Eastwick (1987), cursed family in the soapy The Witches of East End (2013), and witches in paranormal and urban fantasy books—they get to be sexy AND badass in Kim Harrison’s Dead Witch Walking and Yasmine Galenorn’s Witchling.

Significantly here, with the exception of Bell, Book and Candle, these narratives show that witches are allowed to be empowered sexual beings, magical beings, and human beings. So, too, are we.

And yeah, I know we can’t always be at our sexy witchy best 100% of the time, and the idea of sexiness is so fraught for many of us, which brings us to the most dynamic and relatable witch of pop culture: The Basic Witch. This figure goes all the way back to Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz, the iconic every girl (I use this term gender inclusively). 

As Glenda tells Dorothy at the end of The Wizard of Oz, “You've always had the power my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself.” This is now a common Basic Witch trope in witchy narratives--the average person realizing they are magic--and, I think, it's so popular because sometimes we need to remember our profound capacity for magic-making.

This figure gets reborn with Samantha in Bewitched. The witch is not just evil or sexy. She’s now the girl next door. Her casserole will put a spell on you!

By the 90s, we can’t escape the meta parts of witch media. Charmed was made possible by The Craft, both of which were made possible by The Witches of Eastwick, all of which were made possible by Bewitched. Lastly, all of them look at modern witches as everyday women.

So much of what we think of when we think of modern witches, however, are rooted in two iconic texts: The original Charmed series and the film Practical Magic. When Charmed first aired in 1998 it did a radical thing by making witches normal (white) women struggling to pay the rent, get a job that makes them happy, figure out how to date when you have powers, and learning how to have a relationship with your adult siblings that isn’t rooted in childhood spats. They explored issues of childbirth, breastfeeding in public, and working parenthood. So relatable! While the show wasn't without its problems, primarily with representation, it made the witch a fun, flirty, SAFE figure in mainstream media.

The sisters in Practical Magic took that one step further by opening up the magical sisterhood to anyone who is magically inclined, not just natural witches. And thus, a new era of witches supporting witches was born. Just make sure you’re on their phone tree. In addition to Charmed and Practical Magic, I have a few other examples here like Sabrina the Teenage Witch, witchy romances, and a few witchy cozy mysteries that all emphasize being basic (sexy) witches to illustrate how common this archetype becomes in media.

There are some legitimate issues associated with being a basic witch, however, most of which were already outlined in my Wicked Witch spiel at the start of this lecture—cultural appropriation, spiritual gatekeeping, and so much more, especially when the Basic Witch is so often a skinny white het-cis able-bodied young woman.

These issues beg the question: Who is safe being othered? 

In recent romance novel discourse, an important question arose: Should you write a witchy story set in a small town today that doesn’t meaningfully address the suppression of conjure folk practices, violence against people with historically marginalized identities, or America’s violent history? That is, is it offensive to leave those histories out of our feel-good cozy witch stories?

My hot take? It’s complicated. We do need to expand the narrative beyond white feminism, I mean white witches, I mean white feminism. But many creators writing these stories, to my mind, aren’t being malicious—they aren’t Wicked Witches silencing othered voices. I think they’re writing love letters to stories like Practical Magic, Charmed, and other whimsigoth narratives that defined a generation. While many of these texts were transgressive and transformative for their time, they are also dated now, which illustrates how these proverbial love letters to these texts might also feel dated even though they were more recently written. 

These writers, in short, are writing stories with the understanding that witches are fictional characters—not real people with lived experiences. That is, their stories are pure fantasy that, like any fantasy, can (un)intentionally reinforce the status quo. The more we understand that witches are real and not mythological beings, the more magical—and powerful—we can make witchy stories. Still, I totally get wanting to read a low-stakes story about magical stuff that feels like an escape from real-world traumas, which is what I think a lot of these romantasy and cozy paranormal mysteries are trying to do.

Still, I’m forever grateful for stories like Celestine Martin’s Witchful Thinking, which celebrates BIPOC joy and whimsy within a cozy paranormal small-town setting. It goes a long way to normalizing BIPOC magic and reminds us that we deserve to be centered in enchanting stories with HEAs where the stakes are not surviving genocide or dismantling systemic oppression but in finding love and learning to be brave.

I’ve included a few other examples of books that explore witchcraft through the lens of intersectional identities: A Spell for Trouble (a black witchy mermaid cozy mystery series), Cemetery Boys (a trans-Latinx story), Labyrinth Lost (a series about brujas), and Black Witch Magic (a BIPOC interracial romance). 

Even shows like The Witches of East End, a soapy paranormal drama, do an important thing by elevating domestic life and reminding us that our day-in, day-out is nothing short of a magical, maybe even telenovela-worthy, narrative. This is an image of the kitchen in The Witches of East End. It is FABULOUS. I've paired it with a meme that says, “girls only want one thing and it's the Practical Magic house.” These stories remind us just how gorgeous witchy houses are and, in turn, that we should treat our homes as sacred sanctuaries. They are so magical, in fact, they have a fandom separate from the texts that birthed them. But, I digress…

Yes, it’s a problem when witches are seen through a lens of white feminism. But guess what? Many of these texts are also celebratory—if in a coded way—for people with historically marginalized identities.

At the time, Bewitched (1964) was a radical and subversive look at interracial relationships via the story of a witch married to a mortal. That said, white witches as stand-ins for other races is incredibly dated now, and borderline offensive, but at the time the original series aired? Revolutionary. And who can forget the iconic line in Practical Magic, “Good news, Sally just came out!” So many witchy stories are queer-coded though I'd like to see more queer witchy stories that are text and not subtext, like the series The Bastard Son and The Devil Himself.

But most significantly…these figures give us permission to conjure a way forward when we are unable to make a home in our ancestral or familial past. What’s more, they show us that our basic lives are basically magical, thanks to gorgeous settings, iconic styles, and a general belief that the best magic is in finding your people, the ones who will help you be your best magical self.

Which leads us to my final, and most important of questions: Which witch are you? Are you a good witch or a bad witch—and how would you define those terms? Are you a wicked witch or a sexy witch or basic witch? Or does it depend on the day? Do you freely take on the term of witch or has the term been applied to you? Or do you prefer another word for your magical self? Mermaids, too, are having a moment. 

Pop culture is so in love with witches, in fact, that we even have Buzzfeed quizzes to help us figure out the kind of witch we are and helpful social media-friendly infographics explaining “definitively” (heave on the air quotes) what types of witches exist in the world. 

Regardless of your answer, if you showed up today, one thing is likely clear: You are a witch. As they say in Practical Magic, “there’s a little witch in all of us.” Pop culture witches help us find that spark within ourselves and nourish it.

As for me, I’ve started thinking of myself as a story witch. A story witch is a fantastical being who knows that stories are some of the deepest forms of magic, and the narratives we tell about ourselves are spells. We find ourselves in stories as we are drawn to the books, shows, and movies that help us work through the plot twists in our lives. We use them to nourish and heal—and to craft enchanting stories of our own. See what I mean? Magic!

Under my story witch image here are books I’ve written about magical living and story magic. I can safely say that everything I’ve written is a spell, a conjuring to help me reimagine my life as something abundant and joyful. 

Thank you so much for coming to my lecture. As I wrap things up, I leave you with this final spell: I encourage each and every one of you to explore your witchy side, even if it makes you a little nervous. It’s worth the journey, I promise you. I mean…who doesn’t want to live deliciously?

Thank you, again.

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The Magic of Witchy Houses in Popular Culture

It should come as no surprise that I am trash for a witchy house. I have Pinterest boards full of witchy decor ideas for my forever home, and my for-now home looks like a cozy hobbit hole behind an unassuming apartment door—a hobbit hole if said hobbit was into crystals, herbs, and other witchy goodness.

It me. I am that hobbit.

I’m not alone in this obsession. Not a Halloween season goes by that I don’t see the meme that, quite accurately states, “There’s only one thing girls witches want and that’s the Practical Magic House.” Although the house doesn’t really exist—the facade was built exclusively for the film and then taken down—IT IS FOREVER REAL IN OUR HEARTS.

This, I can assure you, is a FACT.

Seriously, what witch hasn’t modeled their dream home after the house in Practical Magic? The plant room alone makes me swoon!

And it’s not the only magical house that has fired up our witchy hearts. We have the Halliwell Manor in the original Charmed and the reboot, not to mention one of my personal favorites, the gorgeous abode in The Witches of East End (2013), the outside of which, incidentally, is the same house in the Charmed reboot. Even shows like The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina, The Addams Family franchise, and the recent Mayfair Witches are popular in part because of the gothic magical vibes of their interiors. We want to live in these houses!

This is not even getting into the glory of the fairytale witch house, from Baba Yaga’s home that sits on chicken feet to the strange hut buried deep in an enchanted forest that may be made of gingerbread or moss-covered stones but will always be full of magic and more than a little menace. Or the cottagecore vibes of the witches in Terry Pratchett’s Wyrd Sisters series…and so, so many more.

But why? What makes us love witchy houses in popular culture so much? Other than the fact that they are magical life goals, I mean. OBVIOUSLY.

As the bruja professor, I have a few theories about that…

Witchy Homes as Wild Sanctuary

First, I think it’s essential that we revisit Terri Windling’s lovely essay, “The Folklore of Hearth and Home.” In it, Windling draws on Jungian psychology to illustrate that homes are archetypal spaces, reflections of our psyche. It makes (magical and mundane) sense that our homes are the deepest reflection of who we are. Similarly, in her essay, “Wild Sanctuary,” Windling explores how Marie-Louise von Franz situates the wild wood of folklore as, in part, a reflective healing space the protagonist goes to when the outside world seems too complicated. I think, in many ways, the home can be a type of wild wood or magical realm we escape to when the world feels too fraught, the day-in, day-out too tiring. When we pair these two ideas together—home as archetypal psychic space and wild wood as sanctuary—we can see that the home becomes the site of our inner world, the place we retreat to in order to heal and reflect—and imagine a more magical way of being.

Pop culture pops out the concept of witchy houses as wild sanctuaries behind four walls and a door. It’s where we can be our more authentic selves, strip off the armor of the world, and just be. It’s also where we can tend our internal lives and our private lives…

More than that, the magical houses of literature, shows, and movies emphasize the domestic sphere as a sacred space.

Centering the Feminine Experience

The home, the private sphere, is often associated with the feminine. Most often, it is held secondary to the public sphere or masculine realm. I’m really trying hard not to do a deep dive into my graduate school work on 18th- and 19th-century courtship novels here, but I will say this: The courtship novel, like witchy media, is a genre that focuses on the domestic, the personal, and the private lives which are too often viewed as less-than in comparison with more traditionally masculine, extroverted narratives. Guess what? Both courtship novels and witchy media typically center on the feminine experience. Guess what else? The feminine experience is often seen as less important than the typical hero’s journey.

SHOCKER.

I mean, he goes out into the world and does stuff. She stays home and embroiders cushions. At least, that’s the stereotype, one that completely disregards women’s labor (both physical and emotional) and the importance of our internal lives. Regardless of your gender identity, I think everyone can benefit from celebrating the feminine aspects of their character. We all have both masculine and feminine archetypal energy within us, what Jung called the Anima and the Animus, and while some of his ideas on this are dated (um…what isn’t???), it’s important to remember that we all have a multitude of gender expressions within us. So when I speak of the witchy home as a uniquely feminine space, I’m not ignoring male-identifying witches or anyone who isn’t het-cis, etc., but rather celebrating what we all love about these houses, which is how they acknowledge the power of the traditionally coded-female domestic space and encourage us to honor the feminine-coded aspects of self.

Honoring the domestic sphere is just as important for men or people who don’t identify as women. I’m thinking, to draw once again on courtship novels, of Edward Ferrars in Sense & Sensibility. His mother wants him to be a stylish London lawyer. He, on the other hand, is quite at home in the domestic realm and ends up earning a living in a job that is much more suited to quite domestic pursuits. Let’s be real: Edward Ferrars is an introvert. And we can all relate to wanting a quite sanctuary to feel our feels in a world that wants us to be loud, extroverted, and masculine (yes, even Girl Bosses get burned out!).

But back to the heart of this essay—or should I say HEARTH?

Witchy stories and the houses they take place in have the magical ability to center women’s lives and see mundane things as, actually, quite enchanting. They go further to emphasize that often that stories that get swept under the rug are some of the most interesting, and the spaces we occupy carry the daily joys and dramas within their walls. I mean, who hasn’t buried an ex or two under the rose bushes? Who doesn’t hide their grimoire behind the fine china? Or bake a little spell into their brownies? Or go tell the bees important news? Just me?

The original Charmed is one of the longest-running TV series that centers on female protagonists. It covers everything from growing up in a non-traditional household, the dating lives of women (the joys and terrors), to starting your own business, going back to college as a non-traditional student, to getting married and having children, juggling work, kids, and saving the world, not to mention breastfeeding in public—you get the idea. So much happens in that house. Births, deaths, birthday parties, exorcisms…sure, it’s a show about magic and good versus evil, but, at its heart, it’s a show about sisters. And the lives of women.

Halliwell Manor in the original Charmed (1998) really put the whimsy in whimsygoth.

The Personal is Political…and Magical

The final part of this VERY FORMAL STUDY on witchy houses is that they allow us to see our everyday lives as magical. Like the classic courtship novel that showcase how the personal is political (to borrow the phrase coined by Carol Hanisch in 1970), the witchy home explores how outer world issues (sexism, racism…seriously, pick your -ism) play out within a smaller, more confined scope—and how individual agency can create change when we feel helpless in the face of so much STUFF.

We have our gothic elements—the nightmares and demons, both literal and proverbial, that echo in our psyches and spaces—as well as the hopeful conjurings that make life more enchanting. These homes boldly make subtext text. The stuff we’re working through in our psyches become the demons and monsters we fight, the curses we break, the spells we cast. The monsters in The Charmed reboot (2018), for example, aren’t just ice demons but predators of the #MeToo variety (yeah, it’s a little on the nose, but what paranormal series following the Buffy the Vampire Slayer lineage isn’t?). Similarly, our personal breakthroughs have communal significance, like Sally “coming out” as a witch at the end of Practical Magic…if that’s not queer-coded, I don’t know what is. Or that fact that the sisters break the family curse, ending generational trauma for not only themselves but the next generation. See? The personal is not only political here but magical when we recognize our profound capacity as individuals to conjure change simply by being attuned to our truest selves (I could get into a lot about witches and social justice practices here, but that’s an essay for another time).

The Halliwells in both series aren’t just sisters or witches, but the Charmed Ones, and only by reconnecting in their ancestral home can they activate their powers, which speaks to the power of family, home, and ancestry on our futures. The sisters (again with the sisters!) in both Practical Magic and The Witches of East End are as bound to their home as they are to the curses that control their lives. In all of these examples, the home is the safe space, the sanctuary where these witches go to seek refuge from the evils of the world. Granted, the home in the original Charmed is often invaded by baddies, but that’s because it sits on a magical nexus of sorts which is basically a homing become for all things magical, so what are you going to do? All homes have their quirks.

The Witches of East End (2013) has to feature one of my all-time favorite witchy houses!

Even in The Love Witch (2016), Elaine’s absolutely gorgeous home aesthetic is meant to contrast directly with her destructive nature. Sure, on the surface, she’s love and light….but underneath all that, she’s a toxic, traumatized individual who copes by inflicting that same trauma on others. But her house is so pretty! This is a great example of how her personal empowerment comes at the expense of others…not so magical, even if it looks good on the surface.

While we can empathize with how terribly she’s been exploited and abused, we also can’t condone the fact that her quick fix for healing trauma is to become the predator. Still, her home, filled with jewels, and herbs, and other spell-crafting material, is * chef’s kiss *. The home in this movie is a cautionary tale: Don’t confuse the witchy aesthetic with living right…but when you can be an ethical witch AND have your witchy aesthetic, too? That is truly magical!

Elaine casting her toxic spells and looking fantastic doing it in The Love Witch (2016).

So, on the one hand, we have the gothic elements of our lives literally hanging on the walls in our homes, like a terrible ex hexed into a painting for punishments and safekeeping (hello, The Witches of East End), and the proverbial ghosts of the people who came before us and other spirits (cough, cough, The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina). On the other, we have the absolute joy, the whimsy, the magic of gorgeous homes that are not only feasts for the senses but actually look lived in like in Practical Magic. Buh-bye, ultracold modernism! We want spaces that are loving, warm, and downright mystic.

What in the Whimsigoth?

Let’s face it, a huge part of what makes these stories so enjoyable is the aesthetics. Dancing from whimsigoth to cottagecore to retro glam, witchy homes embody the aspiration fantasy of what our lives can be (just, you know, don’t use your powers for evil or whatever).

They illustrate that our sanctuaries are magical spaces worthy of the time and attention it takes to make them sacred and healing expressions of self. They remind us that our daily lives can be imbued with magic—that everything, even down to washing dishes in a GORGEOUS kitchen, can be a form of spell work (cleansing spell, anyone?). The home is a space where you go to be your most magical and most yourself, protection wards in place, kettle on, family at the dinner table, grimier safely tucked away in the attic.

An Ode to Witch Homes

So much comes from nurturing these domestic spaces, so it only makes sense that we’ve fallen in love with books and films that romanticize our sanctuaries. I mean, doesn’t it just make sense that our private spaces should be works of art and lovingly tended? 

It also quite subtly addresses women’s labor (traditionally): the magic of a well-made soup, the quiet conjuring of cleaning the house or caring for the familiars, I mean, pets, under your care, not to mention the power of a shared pot of tea and a leisurely conversation. Much can be worked through, much conjured over an afternoon cup of chamomile.

In many ways, we remember the houses more than the plot of specific stories. Like The Big City in a romcom, houses are the third protagonist of any good witchy story. Conversely, like The Small Town (very, very idealized) in a romcom, a house in a witchy story reminds us of the quiet, simple magic of daily life—no need to go to far-flung places to search for magic. It’s right in front of us. Homes are where we spend most of our time, where we are most ourselves. At the end of the day, these witchy homes remind us who we want to be—who we can be, what we can conjure, if only we remember we are magic.

Fun fact: This home is featured as the exterior for both The Witches of East End home and the Charmed reboot home.

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What's the Deal with WitchTok?

WitchTok. It’s a thing. And like all things having a cultural moment, there are good and bad things associated with the phenomena. 

It’s not that I don’t love what social media has done for these communities, but I do think it’s important to make it clear that it’s all sweet manifestations and positive affirmations. On the one hand, I absolutely love the fact that people can be more open about “alternative” forms of spirituality (read: anything that’s not institutionalized religion), but that doesn’t mean that it’s all love and light.

It’s not. 

And there are very real issues people have to understand so they don’t end up recreating the hot mess of institutionalized religions, including fear-mongering, spiritual bypassing, and run-of-the-mill performativity. (Quick side note: I’m talking about the bad stuff here and know that some people have been able to find meaning and goodness in these things. I’m not one of them, but more power to you if they’ve been helpful to you in some way.) In other words, just because witchcraft is a historically marginalized spiritual practice doesn’t mean it’s without problems, many of which I outline in this article.

I’ve been marinating on these issues after a recent interview on WitchTok by PBS Subcultures which offered a celebratory look at this pop culture phenomenon and the witches who have helped create safe online witchy communities. I especially appreciated how this segment made sure to point out ways to avoid cultural appropriation (a HUGE problem in the community) and that many of the WitchTok influencers that were interviewed seemed to be more aware and working within their own cultural practices. Yay!

Still, with full respect to the creators of this piece, I do want to take a little time to unpack the dark side of WitchTok. Overall, it was a thoughtful piece that focused on the very best parts of the WitchTok community, which is important given how often these marginalized communities are often villainized or misrepresented and, let’s be real, Halloween is a great time to introduce people to the concept of IRL witches. Who isn’t more open to new ideas come spooky season? And who wouldn’t like to know that some of their favorite story archetypes can also be…actual people with actual lived experiences?

So I guess this is my way of saying that I’m not some salty old crone who gets her kicks going around roasting the baby witches of TikTok. But I do think it’s important to teach people (I’m the bruja professor, after all) how to critically engage with witchy media. It’s not about choosing between loving or hating these subcultures or validating or decrying WitchTok (or social media in general). It’s about joyfully problematizing issues within these communities. It’s also about providing the historical context surrounding such conversations, including how streaming has introduced a new generation to witchy media that, in turn, has inspired a new wave of witches. And it’s about unpacking the nuances of a dynamic, evolving, and complex phenomenon.

I want my students especially to feel like they leave my classes with a clear sense of the beauty and wonder of these communities, but also the very real pitfalls and dangers. That’s the only way we can embrace the joyful and meaningful while also dismantling the hidden systemic oppression and other toxicities within these subcultures.

So…what does this have to do with WitchTok?

Well, let’s look at it this way. I think it’s great that witchy business is having a pop culture moment. Normalizing our communities keeps us safe and encourages others to explore their spirituality in ways that might be more fruitful to them than mainstream religion. Social media has gone a long way to making that possible.

At the same time, precisely because social media is so open, it can become a breeding group for misinformation, cultural appropriation, and general spiritual no-nos like sharing rituals from closed practices or practices that aren’t meant to be shared publicly or outside your circle (however you might define that—it could be your local or virtual coven or even your solitary self). There’s also the weird stuff of teaching people how to perform coercive love spells or summon demons…just don’t. It never ends well. Literally, any B horror movie will tell you this.

It’s also not as easy to say all witches are about social justice, including inclusion and religious freedom. Ideally, yes, we are. But there are still plenty of witches that engage in white supremacy and cultural appropriation, for example, or exhibit the kind of ignorant zealotry that suggests science and spirituality can’t coexist. Take the whole #WitchesWearMasks phenomenon. It started within the community to counter conspiracy-theory level panic about vaccines, masking, and modern medicine’s approach to curbing the worst of the pandemic. Many of us began using the hashtag to remind people that spirituality and science work hand-in-hand, and you can manifest your way out of getting sick in the way you can prevent the spread of disease by masking, social distancing, and good hygiene practices. 

Lastly, there’s also the issue of performativity. Yes, I like social media. Yes, I think it’s important for connecting people and disseminating information. Yes, I think we’re all performers in one way or another the minute we step outside our sanctuaries. But the dark side of this is that we can get lost in the performativity of an app rather than focusing on meaningful connections. This isn’t a particularly new or brilliant concept, but it bears repeating: there’s a fine line between reaching viewers and getting lost in the trap of creating content to appease algorithms. When creators rely solely on those algorithms, the things that say certain hashtags, songs, and subjects are trending, you start creating to feed the machine rather than coming from an authentic place. Hey, I’m not saying algorithms aren’t important—just that they shouldn’t be the sole motivating force behind creation.

Let’s give a few non-witchy examples of what I’m talking about here. A recent New York Times article explored how bad dates are great for TikTok content. On the surface, that’s kind of fun. We get to relate over bad dates, feel connected to a community that’s also searching for love, and generally feel better about the struggle to find The One(s). Yes, if these creators continue to make bad date content because it’s going viral, at what point do they become part of the problem? That is, at what point do they continue to date just so they have content to share, content that will hopefully continue to go viral? That’s not authenticity—it’s setting up prospective dates who unwittingly will become fodder for a creator’s feed.

We see the same issue with WithTok. We have to question at what point a beautifully crafted ritual or aesthetic is more authentic to the witch or the creator…that is, most of us witches don’t look camera ready when we’re making magic, and it’s important to remember that a lot of the “flawless” spell-casters out there don’t look like that when the camera is off either.

In another recent article, many begin to question how the rise of therapy talk in situations outside of the therapy room is hurting relationships. A large part of this is because of short TikTok videos from therapists advocating for clinical, almost corporate scripts to talk about relationship issues with friends and other loved ones. On the one hand, we can say, “Yay! I’m so glad to see therapy is normalized in this way!” On the other, a lot of people are missing and appropriating important terminology that should really only be used within a therapeutic context. Too many people bandy about words they don’t understand or try to use TikTok scripts to deal with complex situations—neither of which are ultimately healthy.

The same issue plays out in WitckTok. We get quick soundbites that offer self-care in the form of spell work or witchy business as an antidote to things like stress, depression, and anxiety. I get the allure of that—we all want magical solutions to mundane problems. But the problem is that WitchTok can sell conjure practices as a cure-all for serious issues that need professional attention. That, my readers, is not so magical, as it can make people feel like there is something wrong with them for not being able to manifest their troubles away or, perhaps worse, sell the illusion that you can do just that.

And yet…

I love that WitchTok is reviving this like whimsigoth, the fashion trend inspired by 80s and 90s witches (it makes it soooooo much easier to find home decor and fashion pieces). Basically, a whole lot of this phenomenon has to do with the fact that a new generation of viewers has been exposed to shows like the original Charmed and movies like Practical Magic, thanks to streaming and a lot of time at home during the pandemic.

Similarly, WitchTok, and social media more generally, is generating more interest in cottagecore lifestyles thanks to Instagram-worthy photos of That Bucolic Life. Truth? I am so here for inspirational reels that romanticize “roughing it” with zero understanding of what actual roughing looks like (yes, even cottagecore vibes and whimsigoth have their problems). Still…It’s aspirational. It’s fantasy. It’s just plain fun!

The problem comes when we treat WitchTok—or any group—as a monolith. It’s not. It’s got great things going on. It’s also got really bad things going on, and a whole bunch of stuff in the middle gray area. And it’s a gentle reminder, in the midst of witches trending on the internet, that we’ve been around for a long time and will still be around when the internet buzz around us has faded. The witches on this app haven’t invented anything. They’ve just made some things more visible to a new audience for better AND for worse.

Bottom line: Enjoy what’s there to enjoy on WitchTok, and social media more generally, and be mindful of its dark side so you don’t get stuck there. And remember that when WitchTok gets tired of whimsigoth and moves on to The Next Big Thing, the rest of us will still be living that low-key witchy life, loving our whimsigoth vibes and cottagecore aspirations. When the internet gets tired of watching videos of appropriated conjure practices or sus love spells, the rest of us witches will keep doing what we’ve already been doing all along: Making magic, even—especially?—when it can't be easily captured in a glossy click-bait video.

And who knows? Maybe some of those witches of TikTok will still be practicing, too.

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It's Not All Love & Light: The Dark Side of Witchcraft & Pagan Communities

I’ve become increasingly wary of mainstream culture’s love affair with witches. I know, that’s a terrible thing to say, considering I love all things witchy, I’m a bruja, and I teach a class on witchcraft in pop culture.

But hear me out.

People so often come to all things witchy (and, more generally, pagan and New Age) with preconceived ideas about what these spiritual communities are about and what they should look. In many cases, they don’t really want to learn the nuances or complexity of these subcultures. And I’m not talking about the people who call me a devil worshipper for posting tarot readings on social media or the randos telling me I’ll burn in eternal hellfire for doing unnatural things like posting body butter recipes.  I’m not even talking about the people who think witchcraft only exists in pop culture with the likes of Samantha Stephens in Bewitched, the sisters in Charmed, or the midnight margarita fun of Practical Magic. In fact, I love pop culture witches and think they have some great advice for magical living! No, I’m talking about the curious souls who’ve discovered that witchcraft is having a pop culture moment and have decided that, as a historically stigmatized subculture, this cultural renaissance is a very good thing.

And, in some ways, it is. Okay, in a lot of ways!

I mean, I never thought in a million years I’d get to be a bruja professor and teach courses on the legacy of witchcraft in pop culture that includes discussions of different spiritual traditions practiced by real communities. I never thought I could be more open about my own woo-woo ways as a teacher in higher education, nor a writer who could be open about my witchy life while also writing witchy fiction. This is a HUGE deal, especially for someone who has vivid memories of “friends” telling me I was going to Hell for not going to church on Sunday when I was a tween, something unheard of in more traditional Hispanic communities. True story. 

So, yes, normalizing these forms of mysticism offer an important foundation for people to openly and safely explore their spirituality separate from institutionalized religion. This is a VERY good thing. One of the joys of a subculture moving more mainstream is that it isn’t as stigmatized and, thus, more accessible. Woohoo!

Objectively, there’s nothing wrong with wholeheartedly celebrating the normalization of New Age spirituality and the many subcultures it encompasses…until you look a little deeper, that is. We’re living in a moment where any progressively minded person has become more aware of social inequities in our country if they weren’t already. Unfortunately, the knee-jerk reaction to many of these shocking revelations is to celebrate and uphold all forms of inclusion. Again, this sounds great! And it is great in a lot of ways. 

But what often happens is that this attempt at inclusion becomes largely performative, and it frequently ignores the fact that many historically marginalized communities can also be perpetrators of systemic oppression or be problematic.  In our collective attempt to be more inclusive and progressive, we’ve silenced a lot of important complex issues that need to be addressed for meaningful change in favor of feel-good performative celebrations of diversity.

These issues play out in current discussions of witchcraft that want to celebrate female, BIPOC, and queer empowerment (to name a few historically marginalized identities) while ignoring very real issues within the community, including spiritual bypassing, cultural appropriation, and commodification, to name a few. 

It’s not all love and light…

Let’s be real, people. It’s not all love and light.

And it’s important to acknowledge this fact so we don’t perpetuate toxic behavior or encourage performative spirituality, which can have negative consequences, both personally and socially—and spiritually.

In an effort to encourage more consciousness in the theses subcultures originally designed to foster higher consciousness, I’m going to highlight some of the biggest issues within these communities and the ones that are most often ignored in favor of the feel-good quick-fix spells and witchy aesthetics divorced from genuine spirituality. I’ll explore them through the lens of pop culture, using examples from movies, books, TV shows, and other media, as they best explore the dark side of the witchy and communities in the way only pop culture can. I should note, however, that while I offer specific readings of these texts for the purposes of looking at the darkest details of many New Age subcultures, there are an infinite number of ways to read these stories—ways that are equally viable and important! I’m just using them here to illustrate some of the more pervasive issues within witchcraft communities and other pagan or New Age spirituality groups.

Common issues within mystic communities…

Spiritual Bypassing is when someone uses the outer trappings of a spiritual practice—meditation, spells, even yoga poses—to dissociate from trauma. They lose themselves in the feel-good aspects of the practice or the sense of control and temporary empowerment a spell can give without ever meaningfully dealing with the deeper things they need to work through, such as ancestral, generational, or personal traumas. Think of it as applying a glittery bandaid to a serious wound. 

I often use the witchy example of cleansing to explain this. You can smudge your house or do a cleansing spell all you want, but at the end of the day, if you find yourself in constant need of deep cleansing, you eventually have to ask yourself why you keep welcoming toxic energy into your life and engaging in toxic situations. Hard decisions have to be made and boundaries reinforced…which is not as sexy or as easy as lighting candles and reciting a cleansing spell.  And yes, you actually have to clean your space—vacuum, mop, wipe down surfaces—otherwise, it’s like putting a new coat of paint on a car that needs serious engine work done, that is, a cosmetic fix only.

Perhaps the best example of this is the cult classic The Craft (1996), in which teens start a coven, try to burn The System to the ground, and end up imploding instead. You know, the usual stuff teens do. Sure, performing spells to deal with real issues make all these young women feel powerful…for a time, but the reality is they are dealing with serious systemic issues that can’t be magic-ed away. Part of the reason why their coven dissolves is because those bigger issues—mental illness, domestic abuse, racism, physical trauma—are magnified, not diminished, by their use of the craft. 

I don’t think there’s a person out there who doesn’t love when Rochelle magically punishes the mean girl Laura for being a racist, but it ultimately doesn’t change anything. Pervasive racism in the elite space of private school is still there by the end of the movie, as is the fact that Rochelle hasn’t found a meaningful way to grapple with or heal from it. Same goes for Nancy—her magic empowers her but also makes her more unstable until she eventually becomes the kind of predator she turned to the craft to escape. Bonnie literally finds a surface or cosmetic answer to unresolved physical trauma. Even Sarah has a traumatic past that’s hinted at, though never fully developed, that’s tied to the death of her mother and her own suicide attempt. You can’t magic those issues away, and if you try to, they will bubble to the surface and create more trauma and chaos, just as they did by the end of this movie. The real villain of this film is unresolved trauma and how these young women use witchcraft like a sparkling bandaid on gaping wounds—sooner or later, the blood is going to seep out.

Toxic Positivity is closely linked to spiritual bypassing. It’s what I call the Love & Light Problem, where someone advocates for nothing but good vibes, completely suppressing or ignoring negative emotions or more serious issues. The 2016 film The Love Witch is a great example of this. Our perfectly quaffed witch swans around saying things like “Bright blessings!” She performs complex and aesthetically pleasing spells in an effort to take charge of her life. She’s also a hot mess. Her untreated trauma bleeds out into everything she does, leaving a trail of chaos in her wake.

Elaine, like the baby witches in The Craft, has a lot of undealt with trauma, to put it mildly, a fact that gets buried under her picture-perfect facade. She is always perfectly dressed with flawless makeup and a GORGEOUS aesthetic and can-do attitude which masks the very real sexual, physical, and religious trauma she’s experienced. Unlike the young women in the 1996 cult classic, however, Elaine is more put together. She hides behind positive affirmations and a carefully constructed Love Witch persona, all while perpetuating the same sexual and religious trauma on others. She, like Nancy in The Craft, becomes the predator and, while we might empathize with their traumas, those wounds, ultimately, do not give them permission to inflict them on others. 

Commodification and commercialization are also big issues within these communities. On the one hand, I love the Instagram-worthy images of witchy stuff I see online. It’s fun! It’s sparkly! It’s aspirational! On the other, it sells us the idea that we can’t be magical without a limitless expense account, tons of pricy crystals, expensive tools, and fancy accessories. In reality, these practices are about reconnecting with yourself and aligning yourself with the ebb and flow of the universe, not buying a bunch of stuff so you have the right witchy aesthetic. 

Again, I’m not saying don’t buy that thing that makes you feel witchy and fabulous or don’t watch that WitchTok feed that fills your cottagecore-loving heart with joy. I’m saying we need to separate the aesthetic from the practice. Also, in case you didn’t know this, YOU DO NOT NEED TO BUY ANYTHING TO BECOME WITCHY OR MORE SPIRITUAL.

You also need to think critically about what you are buying. For example, crystals are a big part of this New Age industry now, and it is only recently that we are learning how exploitative and harmful mining practices are. Or do you really want to be like Sephora and sell witch kits that include sacred and endangered white sage and encourage people to “play witch” without understanding the real practices—and people—behind these things? I’m just pointing out the bad stuff here, but it’s also not as easy as all that. I have crystals, yes (though I’m more careful about buying them now), and I would be lying if I said I don’t want to buy my future children this witchy play set. Back in the day, I just used sticks, dirt, and rocks from my backyard, old-looking books from my parents’ library, and a random bucket. Still, there’s no reason my children can’t do both! 

The key factor here is realizing that while you might love collecting witchy mugs like me, they don’t make you a witch. In other words, I would be a bruja with or without those mugs, so I don’t believe it when someone tells me I *have* to have them in order to be *authentic.* I know the mug example is a little silly, but this is a gimmick a lot of people fall prey to, suddenly thinking they need to buy jewel-encrusted anthems and gothic couture to be an authentic practicing witch. If those things float your boat, by all means, enjoy! But don’t feel less than if you can’t afford it or it doesn’t vibe with who you are (witchcraft is learning to embrace your truest self, after all).

Spiritual Performativity combines the commodification of the craft and spiritual bypassing. There are loads of WitchTok videos that promote this spell, ritual, or a vibe…but you have to wonder at what point does their performance end, and the real spirituality begin? Some spiritual practices are close practices and are meant to be private. Not everything should be shared online. In other cases, you have to consider how informed the person behind the account is. I’ve seen many a baby witch proclaiming their knowledge and expertise with stuff that is just plain cultural appropriation, misinformation, or even dangerous (I’m looking at you, anti-vax pagan community!). 

In fact, a lot of witchy or mystic work is not something you can easily capture in an Instagram story or TikTok video. It’s a quiet, internal thing, something that works from the inside out. And, I promise you, most of us don’t often do spiritual things in full makeup and within range of an Instagram filter. Again, some of this social media stuff could be useful if this content if it’s being used mindfully. And some of it is just fun, soothing, or pretty to look at. But you have to then think about if this practice is moving beyond the performative. What ideas about spirituality are they trying to sell you? Who are these people when the camera is turned off? In other words, don’t mistake the set design, wardrobe, and theater of social media with actual spiritual practices. Often, they are two very different things.

Cultural Appropriation is, of course, a huge issue. Many people in witchy and pagan communities liberally “borrow” from other cultures. That’s a big HELL NO. Bottom line: If it’s not part of your culture, you shouldn’t be practicing it. You have no idea what energies you’re dealing with, and you’re basically welcoming in some pretty bad energy by messing with stuff you don’t understand. Seriously, any witchy horror movie will tell you this.

Still, many white practitioners have been known to publish books on voodoo, hoodoo, and other folk conjure practices that they aren’t actually connected to because they feel entitled to those practices. White practitioners also liberally label many conjure practices as “witchcraft,” when the practitioners of that practice often wouldn’t self-describe as a witch and have a completely different understanding of witchcraft. The appropriation of Indigenous practices is rampant in the community, not to mention the appropriation of practices from other marginalized groups. 

It makes sense that you shouldn’t trivialize spiritual practices from other cultures, and it’s easy to tell people not to. The problem comes from the fact that appropriation is so pervasive that many people don’t even know they're doing it. Take the use of white sage for smudging. It’s an Indigenous practice that should only be practiced within those communities. White sage is also endangered, thanks, in part, to its codification and appropriation of white New Age communities. So that means many newbie practitioners see something cool online and start doing it for themselves, not realizing that the thing they saw was appropriated from another culture. They then perpetuate that appropriation. 

Now, some people grow through that, and I respect everyone’s learning journey. Who hasn’t gotten into something only to learn that their initial foray included some sketchy info? But too often, people don’t ever bother to educate themselves or move beyond approbation. Worse, they feel entitled to it. There’s a huge problem with white supremacy and cultural appropriation in the community.

There are literally too many pop culture examples to name with this one, so I’ll just stick with the classic TV series Charmed (1998-2006), which used a vaguely Wiccan-inspired framework for their depictions of witchcraft. If you watch the series long enough, you will see the Charmed Ones engage with (read: appropriate) a variety of cultures ranging from Chinese and other Asian cultures, to black spiritual practices like Hoodoo and Voodoo, and Indigenous practices like smudging, to name a few. The reboot series, you’ll notice, makes a more concerted effort to distinguish between various spiritual practices—and who gets to practice them.

Let’s put the consciousness back in higher consciousness…

So where does all this yuck leave us? Hopefully, with a better appreciation of what is good in these subcultures and what is bad. There’s no such thing as a community—spiritual or otherwise—that’s all love and light. Every group has its dark side, and it’s best to be mindful of it. Hopefully, after reading this, you can develop a solid roadmap for navigating—and enjoying—these communities while avoiding the pitfalls. Consciousness, after all, comes with a price, as does magic. And if you truly want to practice any form of natural spirituality, you need to put the consciousness back in higher consciousness.

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The Origin of the Tarot with Jessica Mason

As witches and pagans, it’s almost a given that we have to spend a lot of time thinking about the past. After all we are engaging with practices and faiths that are thousands of years old, many with roots before recorded history. We’re piecing together ancient stories and arts, trying to fit them into our modern lives and so it feels almost like a given that some of the most common and well-known tools of our trade must come from a source shrouded in mystery and magic. That’s the default conception of the Tarot. The default assumption is that these cards are some sort of ancient mystery, handed down from high priests of Egypt, hidden from the church, and only recently revealed. Or it was invented by Romani fortune-tellers and should not be touched by outside hands.

These stories are compelling and captivating … but they’re wrong. The history of the Tarot isn’t quite as complicated or mysterious, though there are some unknown parts. This divination tool has a far more modern origin, at least compared to ancient Egypt. But the story of the tarot is fascinating nonetheless.

Tarot began as a card game, pure and simple and the story of tarot is the same as the history of playing cards in general. Playing cards themselves began to show up in Europe around the late 14th century. These were hand-painted cards, but they were made of paper and used a lot so not many survived the centuries. However, we know these cards had suits like modern tarot and playing cards. The real mystery is where did those come from?

We actually don’t really know but the most likely explanation and origin is Asia, specifically China where games played with cards and tiles like Mah Jong, were popular. Mah Jong itself had suits and special trump-type tiles that are suspiciously similar to Tarot, so it’s probably a distant ancestor of the cards we used today. The games likely moved along the silk road until they made it to Europe.

The oldest known Tarot deck is the Visconti-Sforza deck from around 1440. This Italian deck was used for the game which game tarot its name, Tarocchi. The major arcana, as we now know them, were inspired by allegorical figures used in festivals and carnivals, and so the symbolism of the journey of a soul through life, death, and resurrection, was already built in. The game was popular in Italy and eventually caught on in France as well. Eventually, decks like the famous Tarot of Marseilles became popular aby by the time that deck was popular, around 1750, Tarot as a divinatory tool was popular.

And that’s not surprising. Divination has always been part of human culture, from the most ancient of times, and humans will use anything to do it. But it won’t always be recorded. By the 18th century Tarot as a divination tool was popular enough that occultist Jean-Baptiste Alliette, or Etteilla, wrote a famous work analyzing the mystic meaning of the Tarot … and falsely connecting it to the ancient Egyptians. This isn’t surprising however given that a lot of secret societies at the time, including the Freemasons, were all about connecting their rites to Egypt since it was the most ancient culture that the majority of folks knew of. Alliette was also the first to name the major and minor arcana.

Occultism itself grew and developed into the 19th and early 20th century, perhaps most famously with the Hermetic Order of the Golden Dawn, which had roots in Freemasonry and Rosicrucianism much like Alliette’s work. Therefore it’s not surprising that the modern Tarot we know best was developed by members of that organization. The deck which made Tarot famous globally is commonly referred to as the “Rider-Waite” but is more accurately called the Rider-Waite-Colman-Smith deck. That’s because while Rider was the publisher and golden dawn member Arthur Waite wrote the guide, it was the amazing Pamela Colman-Smith who created the cards we know so well today and it was she who first put allegorical images to all 78 cards. 

Tarot isn’t ancient Egyptian, but it does tap into an ancient practice, that is, divination itself and using it as a tool to speak to the divine, to the otherworld, or even simply to ourselves. The real history of the Tarot may not be as sexy as “ancient manuscript revealed to a select few” but that’s okay. A tool doesn’t have to be ancient to work and a system doesn’t need to be shrouded in mystery to be magical.

Guest Contributor Bio

Jessica Mason lives near Portland, Oregon with her wife, daughter, and corgi. She is a journalist and author of nonfiction, fiction, and fan fiction. She hosts the Reel Magic podcast and when she’s not writing or being a fangirl, she enjoys gardening, writing other things, music, and witchcraft.

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